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CUDGE.NET IN THE NEWS Not sure how we missed this early-February article from the Massachusetts-based Patriot Ledger, but we're certainly happy to have been mentioned.

The article is from a series by Patriot Ledger Lifestyles editor Dana Brag, who is documenting "the trials, tribulations and joys of wedding planning."

Other installments from the series can be found here, here and here.

SAFETY SAFETY SAFETY A terrible, tragic story out of Louisiana shows just how dangerous candles can be:

A candle lighted by a family spending its first night in a Marrero townhouse ignited a fire early Thursday that killed 11 people, including eight children, in what authorities believe is one of the deadliest residential fires in Louisiana history.

Always have a safety plan when dealing with candles. Always keep candles away from flammable items. Always blow out candles before leaving a room.

You can read more safety tips here.

ASK AMY GETS SASSY From a recent column:

Dear Amy: I was asked to address my own thank-you envelope when I was at a bridal shower recently. I did not fill one out because I do not agree with it. I guess I will not get a "thank-you" for the gift I gave. Am I being too touchy about this? I thought it was tacky. Is this a new trend for showers? - Perplexed on Protocol

Dear Perplexed: Why didn't the prospective bride just have you write the note too? Then she could be assured that it was lovely and heartfelt and arrived in a timely fashion. I know what the shower host is thinking here--she thoughtfully wants to get everything right, but part of the beauty of getting things right is the quiet, behind-the-scenes effort it takes to get there. I have heard of this practice, but am not sure if it's a trend.

AND NOW THIS Wedding proposal consultants are all the rage, at least according to the Sydney Morning Herald.

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